I am going to write about the day to day struggles that a teenager goes through, and how we see the world. I will include things about drugs, school life, bullying, and sex. If you like to know to know what other teens are doing, stay tuned.
Tuesday, July 15, 2014
When is The Right Time to Lose Your Virginity?
Let me start off by saying that this is a difficult question to answer. Everyone is different, therefore when they are ready to have sex is also different. Some may be ready as early as 15, or 16 while others are ready much later in life from 18 to 21. The first thing that anyone should know is that timing is not the issue and it should not concern you; the important thing is how ready YOU are. No matter your age the body has to be ready, or developed. If your special sections are prepared for the actions then you'll probably know that now isn't the time. Mind set also plays a huge factor. If you are being pressured into having sex, than it is probably not you who wants to do it. There is no official way to excite yourself about sex, if you want it then you want it....if not than DO NOT DO IT. Peer pressure is not worth a possible baby, or worse...an STD. Learn everything you can about sex and the repercussions BEFORE you do it, you might learn something. Honestly, a baby is not the worst thing to happen to a teenager. All they do is keep you up at night, take your money, make people judge you and your child, whine, throw up/gag, etc. That's not bad, is it? As for the right time maybe you should focus on the right person before the actual timing. Choosing the right person can change a lot of things, will you love this person? will they love you? do any of you have a job (possible baby)? is he/she pressuring you? can either of you handle it (mentally/physically)? I'm sure that there are other questions, but that's all I can think of right now. All I have left to say is do you, if your ready than your ready. Don't let people pressure into doing something you might regret. Know all the facts before you do something that might change your life forever. Please practice safe sex, and do not have sext before 17 and 18. BYE;)
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